{"id":1532,"date":"2021-06-21T13:00:41","date_gmt":"2021-06-21T13:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/?page_id=1532"},"modified":"2022-12-04T02:53:04","modified_gmt":"2022-12-04T02:53:04","slug":"preventing-harm","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/index.php\/preventing-harm\/","title":{"rendered":"Preventing harm"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-7387b849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:20%\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:80%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-luminous-vivid-orange-color has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14.082px, 0.88rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.76), 21px);px\">\u201c<em>There can be no keener revelation of a society\u2019s soul than the way in which it treats its children.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:20%\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.549), 19px);px\">Nelson Mandela<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:17px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);px\">Our current approach to divorce and family separation causes harm in so many ways. Its one of the leading contributors to Adverse Childhood Experiences, with all their harmful, lifetime consequences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:13px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Adverse-Childhood-Experiences-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1799\" srcset=\"https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Adverse-Childhood-Experiences-1.png 1000w, https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Adverse-Childhood-Experiences-1-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/Adverse-Childhood-Experiences-1-768x576.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:47px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);px\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);px\">Two Wishes aims to remove the stigma of divorce and family separation and to change current systems that incentivise harm to children, and even weaponise children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-7387b849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);px\">Forget the idea that &#8220;what doesn&#8217;t kill you, makes you stronger&#8221;! In her groundbreaking book, award-winning journalist Donna Jackson Nakazawa shows the link between Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), such as childhood exposure to parents&#8217; divorce or separation, and adult illnesses such as heart disease, auto-immune disease, and cancer. Childhood Disrupted also explains how to cope with these emotional traumas and even heal from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);px\">As the book&#8217;s subtitle suggests, &#8220;your biography becomes your biology&#8221;; the emotional trauma we suffer as children not only shapes our emotional lives as adults, it also affects our physical health, longevity, and overall wellbeing. Scientists now know on a bio-chemical level exactly how parents\u2019 chronic fights, divorce, death in the family, being bullied, or growing up with a hypercritical, alcoholic or mentally ill parent can leave permanent, physical \u201cfingerprints\u201d on our brains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);\">Two Wishes is campaigning to change our focus on families, and our approach to family separation, from harmful, too-late legal interventions to much earlier, health-focused solutions.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"386\" height=\"663\" src=\"https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/ChildhoodDisrupted-Pages.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1801\" srcset=\"https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/ChildhoodDisrupted-Pages.png 386w, https:\/\/twowishes.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/ChildhoodDisrupted-Pages-175x300.png 175w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 386px) 100vw, 386px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(14px, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 0.33), 17px);px\"><br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThere can be no keener revelation of a society\u2019s soul than the way in which it treats its children.\u201d Nelson Mandela Our current approach to divorce and family separation causes &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1532","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t<!-- All in One SEO 4.9.8 - aioseo.com -->\n\t<meta name=\"description\" content=\"\u201cThere can be no keener revelation of a society\u2019s soul than the way in which it treats its children.\u201d Nelson Mandela Our current approach to divorce and family separation causes harm in so many ways. 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